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I like to control but I want to be controlled.

Adventurously naughty covers it quite nicely I think, but you tell me
I love women of all shapes and sizes from skinny to chubby. No boobs to lots of boobs, classy to goth and everything else in between so there's no need to be shy. Especially with me considering how brutally open a person I am. I may be slightly picky and superficial but it's an awesome personality and morals that will keep my interest at its peak. As well as keeping nine other inches at their peak!!! Hahaha
If you have no face pics and you like what you see or want to know more then please at least send one in a private message just so as I know you actually have a semi ridged spine in the first place. I'm good at secrets if you want to stay in the shadows, as long as it's for innocent reasons.

Apart from that though lol.

Uber willing and kinky sub dom switch, kind of, kind of not. Fuck knows to be honest anymore really!! With enough trust in an intimate situation, gained either through messages, emails etc, whatever really, and I will switch to sub by default without question. I will add, I am not some sort of fanatical dom either. Respect is a two way street for me on that matter. My sub side may beg to differ somewhat on that subject though!!!
I simply would love to explore that side and abide by very few rules in doing so, just like any good sub would.
Not into men, had enough cock as a child so it kind of put me off having a man at the other end of an appendage! On saying that though, I'm not against them either or mmf.

I can be shy. Sometimes.

More, the me that used to be it seems these days. But if I am, you will notice it quickly vanishes to reveal an adventurously compliant nympho that’s been masquerading as a dom his whole life due to life itself. I may be new to this scene as such but please do not mistake my newbieness for a lack of willingness nor experience!!!

I did most of these things by the time I was eleven or twelve. I am NOW willing and experience is NOT an issue!!!!
Eeek, Did I just say that!!!
No matter whether it's fun or something more you're after, I am very versatile and love everything from organised strict sex to fine dining out to snuggled up with a film, concerts etc and of course seeing nothing sexier than a woman at the heights of enjoyment whether it be through giving or receiving.
Life is not a popularity contest to me and I am a fan of the brutal truth. Too much of a groupie with that one at times!! But on saying that, If something needs said, I’m generally the one that says it where others fear to tread!
I don’t intend to make hundreds of friends in my life but what ones I do have, will be the right ones.

I’m a tortured soul so please take care,
They are both on my sleeve,
Just right right there,
My heart and love, they shine so bright,
They burn like the sun and fly like a kite.

I write.
A lot. (In between everything else that is!)
Poetry, free writing. Even started a fiction novel. In the past month alone I have probably written in the region of up to twenty thousand words there abouts. I use it to help keep my thoughts and emotions better organised/settled.
Now beginning to be very much more open with myself and I am quickly realising that not being directly in control is actually a serious turn on and a lot more fun, filled with moans and squeaks and all manner of noises so I'm told, culminating with loud and explosive multi orgasmic heights.
There is a whole lot more to me than meets the eye so how about you just contact me and ask me anything you want to know or tell me what you're looking for as would love to hear from you, have fun, hopefully satisfy some of your fantasies and maybe some of mine too and hopefully get some close intimate time as its a great healer.
If you think you'd like to either control me. Or think you can handle me. Either is a plus. I don't bite unless you want me to!!
Amazingly, considering my life. I still wear my heart and my love both on my sleeve. Please do not tug on it for the wrong reasons though. I am a tortured soul remember and seem to be getting on with shit so don't need any bawbagish emotional prodding. If you did something that silly I would just draw away from you through lack of discernible trust.

Above all, hope you all stay safe, sexy, kinky, whatever floats your boat really, all of you have a tiddlybootastic day.


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My Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Both
How much Strapon can you handle?Everything!

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Anywhere that's reasonably quiet enough for a quick fuck yet risky enough to put a little bit of fear of being caught into me.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?In a flat up behind sauchiehall street in Glasgow when I was 19. Long story short. Hot hot hot six foot redhead that kind of turned into a black widow after she came a few times and set about me with fists a flying. Thought I was a dead man. Took great speed and skill to escape! Realised later in life there are couples that love to batter shit out of each other it seems. I assume she was one of them seeing as the violence seemed to turn her on. Takes all sorts I suppose lol.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
BuildAthletic / toned
Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairFull beard
Best featureButt
Body ArtSecret piercings, Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionBipolar
Endowment (length)Long
Endowment (width)Thick
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyConstruction / Craftsman
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
My perfect matchI won't know till I meet her.
Our first dateSomething civilised Like a nice meal somewhere as I do enjoy the social side too, then if things go well, who knows!!!!

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all
My role isSwitch
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Electro torture, Fisting, Femdom, Food play, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Needle play, Piercing, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasBeing tied up and brought to heel.


FetishesExhibitionism, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Piercings, Shoes / Boots, Tickling, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anything that should be in a toilet won't be on me I'm afraid.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyTo find a woman willing to switch both ways and for each of us to tie the other up and And find what it takes to make the other scream in pleasure.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Parents house, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, In a church, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:?????

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
Ideal session:To be fully dominated and made to behave. Have my prostate massaged. Be double penetrated and or fisted with lots of other naughtiness in between.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:??? Time will tell is all I am saying but it would involve another mff situation and me to have zero control whatsoever.